As much as we all want to stay married and enjoy a blissful marriage forever, it's also important for ur to know that even the most wonderful couple, perfect couple can end up divorce.
Two people start off genuinely in love but somewhere down the line, despite everything looking rosy on the surface, they shock their families and friends and announces they are ending their marriage because it couldn't work out,. How? What happened? They seemed so good and happy together.
This is'nt unusual at all, many couples struggle to maintain a happy relationship but their marriages still falls apart. babaibadanblog was able to put together 11 bad habits they likely left un-addressed that slowly take their marriages to the rock.
1. Neglecting each other: Blowing each other off, forgetting to follow on things promised, falling to pay attention.
Neither of you necessarily meant to make other things more important than your spouse, but you did.
2. Letting disconnect become a norm: This is when couples start to say that I love you , but am no longer in love with you.
3. Not being on the same page with one another: Often couples lack alighment on the things that matters most, and feels like their own personal goals/ feelings are the most important thing to focus on.
4. Allowing intimacy to dwindle: The affection, connection and tenderness you once shared dries up from lack of effort, leaving you merely roomates.
5.Not meeting each other's needs: Every person has a unique needs they hope their partner will fulfill. But often couples fail to speak up these needs or presume their partners needs are the same as thiers.
6. Criticizing each other: When you nitpick each other in your minds and out loud, soon you will only see your partners faults. After a while complaining and criticizing become a comfortable habit which compromises your willingness to communicate and interact in a compassionate, supportive way.
7. Harboring resentment for each other : Unspoken or unsettled fester and severely poisons a once healthy relationship. One partner or even both can think, you did this to me, and I can't get over it.
8. Not dealing with the things held on: You know things are off, but it's easier to do nothing about it. You avoid facing the truth or handling the real issues in your marriage.
9.Turning your attention and affection elsewhere: Whether by having an affair or pouring all of your attention into kids, one or both of you checked out and sought attention and affection elsewhere. After that, it's easy to completely give up.
10. Letting stress control your life: Life is hectic and many couples accidentally let stress ( BID OR SMALL) come between them. But once stress takes over and shared togetherness fractures, it can feel incredibly difficult to get back.
11. Fighting to win: When you arre more focused on being right than truly connecting, attempts to talk about it usually make things worse.
The longer the above issues remain unresolved in any marriage, the more these habits interwine, intensify and steadily reduce the flow of love and connection in your marriage.
Each day , love dwindles and stress builds until even formerly happy people reach their breaking point.
By babaibadanblog....
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